People and Sexuality
Sex is always a game, no matter whom or what kinda
feelings involved. There’s always the sensation of possessing or
being possessed by the partner.
It’s a part of our sexuality and it’s healthy,
when both partners know how to manage such feelings.
However, one way or another, usually it’s the man
who assumes the sexual control, even without being completely aware
of it.
Both men and women are so accustomed with this situation
that they can’t even realize who gets to control who.
However, our sexuality may be a lot different (and
intense) and makes us feel more desired if we let our women to take
the real creative control in bed.
Women in general are too inhibited to take sexual
control, so it may require a little bit of talk and practice to
let her unleash her wild feelings. Believe it, you both will feel
rewarded.
Set the right sexual mood by putting on some sex
music, dimming the lights, and open up a bottle of wine.
If your partner is still too shy to free her sexuality
and assuming control, try to establish some kind of a role reversal
sex game, or ask her to perform masturbation for you as she describes
what she’s planning to do with you.
Masturbation is a god way to set the mood and turn
the both of you on.
Once you’re up for real sex play, let your woman
control all the movements.
Let her surprise you, and whatever you do, don’t
try to dominate the situation at all, in any aspect.
Let her free her sexuality while discovering that
sex isn’t something to be shy about.
However, if she’s still very shy, let her make progresses
slowly.
It may take a little longer for you both to get
you prize at the end of your “sex role reversal” course, but in
the end it will be fun as well.
Help your partner to discover more about her sexuality
and you’ll few twice rewarded.
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How to have better sexual health
When people are introduced to sex,
they already have some knowledge about it. Masturbation is a very
effective way people have to get more intimate with this issue.
This practice people have to know better their sexuality is not
reserved only to teenagers. Adults can make a good use of their
bodies, as well. Despite of hard to admit, masturbation does not
need to be a shameful practice. When you are alone, feel comfortable
to provide you some intimate moments.
Masturbation is about you and yourself. Nobody else is required,
at first place. Sex is just the opposite. If you do not feel like
sharing pleasure with someone, do not even try to make it. That
is because there are lots of people having sex with other people
aiming only their own pleasure. That is egoism. Sex must be enjoyed
by both parts.
Dangerous sex: Autoerotic Asphyxiation
The autoerotic asphyxiation, a.
k. a. AeA, is a sexual practice that consists in cutting off air
supply in breathing, usually through self-strangulation, so as to
enhance orgasm intensity during lonesome masturbation. The obtained
pleasure by an autoerotic asphyxiation, in theory, is better, so
because the body reaches the state of near asphyxia, more endorphin
gets produced due to ongoing blood supply shortage in the brain.
In AeA, however, people can lose control and so fail in remaining
conscious to remove the devices of asphyxia, which may result in
unprovoked suicide.
The beginning of the sexual life
At the beginning of the adolescence,
lots of questions and new issues appear to both boys and girls.
Changes, physically and psychologically speaking, have other priorities
on this specific time. Related to all this changes, the main subject
must always be discussed: sex. Millions of questions populate the
teenager’s heads and many times remain unquestioned due to shame
or an inflexible growing by their parents. So, who must discuss
this? Who must clarify all their doubts about this subject, that,
many times, even the grown ups doesn’t have enough knowledge to
pass?
Sex in public places
Having sex in public places is one
of the most common sexual fantasies. In this kind of sex, people
perform sexual acts where others could potentially see them. Most
of the time, the motivations for having sex in public are space,
when there is nowhere else to go; urgency, under the influence of
strong sexual desire; special places – like beach – and variety,
when people want to have sex in all the possible places and forms
to expand their erotic repertoires and get away from routine.
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